Sunday, April 11, 2010
relationships and rules
I know alot of people are in relationship but how can you read the person you are with. By saying read, meaning how can you tell if the relationship is a good one or bad? What are some of the rules that you guys have for each other? Currently I am in a relationship and it is a good one. Not perfect but who relationship is? My partner and I have rules. Sometimes he does not know what personal space is, so majority of the time I ask for it. For some reason he thinks when I ask him for space, he thinks I am breaking up with him. That theory is called relationship ruless theory which means relationships are held together by adherence to certain rules. When those rules are broken, the relationship may deteriorate and even dissolve.(Pg)219 Another theory I can compare my relationship to is equity theory, which means ratio of rewards to cost is equal to your partner's. For some reason, he puts more in than me. Previous relationships I have had, it has always been the opposite and I feel gulity about it. I overbenifitted in this relationship, which means feeling guilty.So what are your rules for any relationship?http://oregonstate.edu/instruct/comm321/gwalker/relationships.htm
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ReplyDeleteto all the people in the forum because i never
thought
i will have my girlfriend back and she means so
much to me..The girl i want to get marry to left
me 4 weeks to our wedding for another
man..,When i called her she never picked my
calls,She deleted me on her facebook and she
changed her facebook status from engage to
Single…when i went to her place of work she told
her boss she never want to see me..I lost my job
as a result of this because i cant get myself
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do to have her back to all did not work out until i
met a Man when i Travel to Africa to execute
some business have been developing some years
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through in getting her back and how i lost my
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help me out and he told me the reason why my
girlfriend left me and also told me some hidden
secrets. I was amazed when i heard that from
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see the results in the next couple of days..then i
travel back to Germany the following day and i
called him when i got home and he said he’s busy
casting those spells and he has bought all the
materials needed for the spells,he said am gonna
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Thursday. My girlfriend called me at exactly
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intentional and she promised not to do that
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ikhinspelltemple@gmail.com,or call +2348160379351, I cant
Stop thanking him,thanks prophet.ikhin,you are
the best.